We have been studying the book of 1 Peter. The first half, (see Standing Steadfast in the Face of Your Trials), the apostle was writing primarily to the Jewish Christians in the diaspora, encouraging them to stand strong in the face of Roman persecution, because of their beliefs. He also urged his audience to love their persecutors, to show them Christ’s example, and to speak of His promises.
Now, in the second half of his epistle, Peter reveals God’s instructions for living out our divinely stirred-up love, regardless of the circumstances in the world. He begins to illuminate the love that we must exhibit, in a matrimonial framework:
…you wives, be submissive to your own husbands [subordinate, not as inferior, but out of respect for the responsibilities entrusted to husbands and their accountability to God, and so partnering with them] so that even if some do not obey the word [of God], they may be won over [to Christ] without discussion by the godly lives of their wives, when they see your modest and respectful behavior [together with your devotion and appreciation – love your husband, encourage him,, and enjoy him as a blessing from God]. 1 Pt. 3:1, 2. AMP
Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentile and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God. 1 Pt. 3:3, 4. NLT
Jehovah created the institution of marriage to be the highest form of relationship between a man and a woman.
Yet, ever since the fall of Adam and Eve, men and women have suffered from the foibles of their souls and flesh, which all too often forget or ignore their ‘spiritual programming.’ When they do so and dip their feet back into the fetid waters of the immoral ways of the world, contentions arise.
Nevertheless, God is never One to leave us to suffer, without a way out. So, in the aforementioned Scripture, the Holy Spirit gives us instructions, through Peter, for helping us revive our marriage – by bringing love back to the suffering relationship, when it goes awry.
The apostle is telling us that there is a distinct hierarchy within marriage regarding certain areas of influence. Wives are not being called to submit to their husbands because they are any less worthy in the eyes of God. This submission arises with regards spiritual matters because Jehovah puts the responsibility upon the husband, to be the spiritual leader.
Our Creator also depends upon the wives, to bring unbelieving husbands into His fold, by being such an example of Christ’s love, that he will be drawn into the faith by the love and beauty of her transformed heart. Thus, the wife’s spiritual role in matrimony is every bit as vital as is her husband’s.
In addition, the onus of bringing love into the matrimonial relationship does not just fall upon the wife:
In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered. 1 Pt. 3:7 NLT
Husbands, you are to love your wives, showing them equal honor, realizing that a godly marriage is essential to your relationship to Jehovah.
Bigger still, both husband and wife, (as well as all followers of Christ), must also bring their love to the bigger family of humankind:
Finally, all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude. Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will grant you his blessing. 1 Pt. 3:8, 9. NLT
We love, no matter what, because God always looks out for us. So, we do not hesitate to tell everyone why we love:
Now, who will want to harm you if you are eager to do good? But even if you suffer for doing what is right, God will reward you for it. So don’t worry or be afraid of their threats.
Instead, you must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks you about your hope as a believer, always be ready to explain it. But do this in a gentle and respectful way. Keep your conscience clear.
Then if people speak against you, they will be ashamed when they see what a good life you live because you belong to Christ. 1 Pt. 3:13 – 16. NLT
Ultimately, we demonstrate our greatest love when we do things that please Jehovah, (and here, Peter is returning to why we should love in the face of suffering, as he did in the first part of this epistle):
So then, since Christ suffered physical pain, you must arm yourselves with the same attitude he had, and be ready to suffer, too. For if you have suffered physically for Christ, you have finished with sin. You won’t spend the rest of your lives chasing your own desires, but you will be anxious to do the will of God. 1 Pt. 4:1, 2. NLT
The apostle adds, that loving in the face of suffering brings us Jehovah’s blessings, and it maintains our readiness to receive Christ, upon His return to gather His saints:
The end of the world is coming soon. Therefore, be earnest and disciplined in your prayers. Most important of all continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins.
Cheerfully share your home with those who need a meal or a place to stay. God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them to serve one another. 1 Pt. 4:7 – 10. NLT
…don’t be surprised at the fiery trials you are going through, as if something strange were happening to you. Instead, be very glad – for these trials make you partners with Christ in his suffering, so that you will have the wonderful joy of seeing his glory when it is revealed to the world.
If you are insulted because you bear the name of Christ, you will be blessed, for the glorious Spirit of God rests upon you. 1 Pt. 4:12 – 14. NLT
So if you are suffering in a manner that pleases God, keep on doing what it right, and trust your lives to the God who created you, for he will never fail you. 1 Pt. 4:19 NLT
Love no matter what. Jehovah glorifies you when you suffer for Him, and He repays you with His own eternal love. Moreover, you can even lean on His love in present time, (especially when you are under attack):
So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. Give all your worries and care to God, for he cares for you. Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. 1 Pt. 5:6-8 NLT
Stand firm against him, and be strong in your faith. Remember that your family of believers all over the world is going through the same kind of suffering you are. In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, he will restore, support, and strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm foundation. 1 Pt. 5:9, 10. NLT
We all suffer waves of resistance from Satan, because of our walk with Christ. The devil doesn’t want anyone to rest in the loving arms of God. We understand that our earthly sufferings are put upon us from the futile puffs of breath, by that angelic outcast, who doesn’t want to suffer alone.
We love no matter what. Our Savior will separate the wheat from the chaff, the sheep from the goats, and He’s taking us home.
Faith overcomes, and love always wins…
Goodnight and God bless.